10/23/08

On My Mind

This year's election has been thoroughly trampled by our society but I still feel the need to address it. I may not agree with McCain's Iraq plan. I don't know much about economics but Obama's plan doesn't thrill me, I don't think McCain is right about homosexual rights, I don't agree with some of Obama's pro-choice views. But, I truly do believe that they both would do an excellent job as president, regardless of their political stance.


So why is it that I have to receive Obama Hate Mail every time I open my email. It drives me crazy. OK, here it is! I recently received a terrible email from a very, very dear friend of mine and I pray that she does not believe this hype. This email describes past events that were caused by the direct hand of various radical Muslims and naturally the author must continue his nauseating babble with the qualifications for the anti-christ which amazingly enough both fit Barack Obama. It amazes me that people read this and accept it as fact without asking one single question. After simply reading the Left Behind series it is clear to me that Obama can hardly fit the anti-christ profile, except of course for the middle eastern background. The hatred was emanating from this anti-Muslim email which attacked Obama for his father's background as a Muslim, not a radical Muslim, not even a practicing Muslim at that. What has Obama done that is so terrible? He is just another democrat seeking a powerful position with a wife and family just like McCain. If you are curious about the email, I was able to find a paper that displayed the email and gave an excellent response to it. It is lengthy but very interesting.

For the record, I like both candidates, but I am leaning towards Obama strictly because the McCain/Palin team does not invoke much confidence with Palin's lack of experience and McCain's age. I also feel that Obama would listen and take the advice given from his cabinet, where McCain would cowboy up and do what ever he felt was best.

So please go vote and make your choice on the issues and not on vicious rumors. November 4!

10/20/08

Success Sunday Banner

" My mother drew a distinction between achievement and success. She said that 'achievement is the knowledge that you have studied and worked hard and done the best that is in you. Success is being praised by others, and that's nice, too, but not as important or satisfying. Always aim for achievement and forget about success.' "
Helen Hayes
Yesterday was my daughter's fifth birthday party and I have been planning it out for months to make sure that it would be special. These last several days were extremely hectic and it seemed that every minor thing that I volunteer for happened to be needed this past week. But I still managed to get everything ready in time for her party. We didn't do all the activities and games that I had planned but that was no surprise since I purposely planned to have extra things to do in the event that things moved faster than expected. We played her favorite games and were able to decorate wings with all of her friends and she had so much fun and was so happy. I truly feel that I did achieve my goal for her party which is truly all I needed but it was so nice to hear from my friends that they thought our fairy and dragon party was also successful.
For a slideshow of our party go to MamaKat's page.
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10/14/08


Last Friday we had a wonderful speaker at MOPS. Her name was Andrea and her speech was called, "Life is like a box of Chocolates". While agreeing with the quote made so famous by Forest Gump, she also said that there were other 'chocolates' that we should add to our box.

The first of these were truffles which she equated to friendships. She went into detail of the importance of having friends, not just the casual friendships but she wants us all to have those tight-knit friendships we all had in high school.

Skittles (chocolate variety) represented the unexpected. We all have unexpected moments in life, some good and some bad. It is important, she said, that we not let these times get us down instead focus on the good of the situation. In Proverbs 15:15, A miserable heart means a miserable life; a cheerful heart fills the day with song.

Tootsie Rolls remind to let things roll off of us by forgiving others. She emphasized that when you forgive someone you are not condoning their actions but you are letting go your hurt and anger.

Dark Chocolate is full of antioxidants which help to protect our bodies. We need God's word in our life to help protect our mind from worry, stress, fatigue and everything else that seeks to bring us down. Now if any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives to all generously and without criticizing, and it will be given to him - James 1:5.
Hershey's Kisses represent God's love for us. We often put up barriers that prevent his love from shining into our hearts so we must put down our barriers and let God love us. We are all lovable.

Mint Chocolate are our dreams and passions. God placed these dreams and passions in us so we need to use them and not let them fade away. Some of us don't know what our dreams are or what we are passionate about so Andrea suggests that we ask our friends who see things inside us that we cannot see ourself.

The last piece for our chocolate box are Peanut Butter Cups which are typically enjoyed for what is inside. Enjoy what is inside you and let others enjoy it also.

Afterwards we all discussed which chocolates were needed in our box. My box is definitely in need of some skittles. I tend to get upset and angry when things go a direction other than my well orchestrated plans dictate. Its really hard to let things go and be cheerful instead of angry, but I guess that leads me to the next chocolate I need. Dark chocolate. I know I need more of God's word in my life to help me through those unexpected moments. But I also need some truffles. I have several good friends but I find it so difficult to build those friendships into an unbreakable bond, especially when we all have different responsibilities to our husbands and our children, and sometimes work. Everyone in my group needed different chocolates but at least we were all trying to get those truffles in that box by just showing up to MOPS that day.

10/10/08


Today started out funny, sort of. In the process of getting the kids and myself ready for MOPS, I sent Tiffany to the bathroom to take care of business while Benny ever so slowly ate his breakfast. I continued changing out my old purse to the new one I bought several months ago. Its really nothing special but it was on sale for three dollars and reminds me of the ones that all the really trendy, cool moms use. I was about to use it when I originally purchased it but then it reminded me of fall so I have been waiting to use it until now. Its much smaller than my other purse so it took some time to sort out what I wanted to put into it and before I knew it about fifteen minutes had passed. Then it occurred to me that I had yet to see Tiffany emerge from the bathroom, so I go and check on her expecting to need a gas mask for the amount of time she had spent on her porcelain throne. She is just sitting there smiling. I ask her what she is doing and she says that there is no toilet paper. Why she sat for fifteen minutes air drying instead of asking for help I will never know and I wonder how much longer she would have remained had I not remembered that I in fact did have two children. Girls sure are strange sometimes. Sure enough the fresh roll I put on yesterday had been dipped in water piece by piece and dropped into the waste basket making a very tall mess. I'm thinking that Benjamin and the toilet plotted together to overthrow the paper who got most of the attention, but I could be wrong. So I got her some new toilet paper, grabbed my pretty purse and left wondering what the rest of my day would be like.

10/4/08

If the last week was a measure things to come over the next month, then I may need medication. I recently signed up to be a group leader at our local MOPS organization which only seems natural since I have been part of it for so long and a perfect place to test my leadership skills, if I have any that is. Our first goal was to inform and invite as many moms as possible to join. So we stand by a table outside the children's ministry handing invitations to any mom we see and talk to them about it. In between moms, we leaders naturally chit-chat about unimportant things when the wonderful mom organizing everything informs us of one of MOPS traditions through our church. It seems that the leadership team falls victim to various troubles the week prior to the first meeting. I usually dismiss these sorts of claims because more often than not these are just easily dismissed events that have been connected together when they really don't connect at all. Having said that, my week really sucked! Benny turned into a vomiting volcano as I was waiting in a car line to pick up Tiffany. It was everywhere. Fortunately, I had extra clothes on hand but his car seat was disgusting so I moved him to Tiffany's and had her ride without a car seat. This made her cry even though she has been wanting to sit without her car seat for weeks now. On the way home, Benny started again but I was able to catch it with a plastic bag and still managed to steer the car. He didn't throw up again but he sure was tired and cranky the next two days. Tiffany also chose this time to be a defiant child who seems to know what is best for her and I apparently know nothing. It didn't help that I couldn't sleep during this time either. We were all cranky! Then I get terrible news, Tim's dad was in the hospital with what can only be described as a minor cardiac event. Earlier this year he underwent two separate brain surgeries where we thought that we may lose him and here we go again. Fortunately, he is responding to medication but they are thinking of putting a stint in a clogged artery. We are hopeful, but we will be glad when he is back home. After this week, I will never doubt our wonderful MOPS leader again. It really was a terrible week, but our first MOPS meeting was great!

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